Big Brothers Big Sisters of the Monadnock Region: FAQ

The enrollment and interview process helps us to get to know your preferences as well as the situation best suited for you. It also helps you get to know us and the program expectations. We take into account your personality, likes, dislikes, age preferences, background, and location. But the final decision is yours.

How do children come into the program?

Children and parents may hear about BBBS from a teacher, a counselor, their church, a friend, commercials, etc. All children and their parents choose to be in our program.

Who are the children in the program?

Our Littles come from many types of home environments and family structures, different social-economic levels, ethnic backgrounds, and neighborhoods and schools across all communities. Their backgrounds and personalities are unique, but they all have a need for friendship with a caring adult.

When can I see my Little?

Our Bigs and Littles decide together what they want to do and they get parent approval. We recommend that you keep a consistent schedule of outings and that you see each other on a regular basis. Your local agency will provide specific guidelines on expected frequency of activities with your Little. Until your relationship is established the outings will also depend on the comfort level of your Little’s parent, your Little, and you. If your Little is younger, a shorter outing might be better.

How much money should I spend?

We discourage you from spending a lot of money on your outings. The goal of the relationship is friendship. You should focus your time on getting to know each other. We encourage you to seek out free or low-cost activities, especially in the beginning. BBBS agencies often offer group activities that are a great way to meet other Bigs and Littles! You may also receive notices for opportunities for free tickets for your match to attend a variety of cultural and sports activities.

What are some good ideas for outings with my Little?

Share an activity that gives you something in common to talk about. Buy a comic book to read to each other, play a board game, or take a ride in the car with the radio on while you discuss music! You want to select activities that give each of you a chance to learn more about one another . For children, playing can be learning. Most important: have FUN!

Be sure to check out our Resource List for Matches at http://www.bbbsmr.org/Match_Activity_List.htm for more activity ideas for community-based matches

Can I bring my spouse/friend/family member on outings?

In the beginning it is important for you and your Little to get to know each other. This can happen best on a one-to-one basis. Over time it is also valuable for your Little to get to know the people who are important to you. Keep in mind that if you're spending lots of time with others your Little may begin to feel jealous or neglected. Remember that the main focus is the friendship YOU have with your Little. The local agency you work with may also have specific guidelines to assist you.

What kind of support can I expect from BBBS once I get matched?

Once you are matched with your Little, a Match Support Specialist from the agency will be in regular contact with you to provide assistance and give feedback. Anytime you are unsure about what to do or how to handle a situation, you will have a Match Support Specialist there to help. You'll receive ideas for activities, guidance for handling possible difficult situations, and feedback on how you are making a difference, just by showing up!

How do I make a donation to Big Brothers Big Sisters?

It's easy to make a donation online! Simply click the button below to make a secure donation online using PayPal or a credit card.

To donate by mail, please send check or money order to:

Big Brothers Big Sisters of the Monadnock Region
174 Emerald Street
Keene, NH 03431

How can I donate clothing, toys, books, household goods, a vehicle, or other items? Will Big Brothers Big Sisters pick up my donation?

Please call Peg Monahan at 1-603-352-9536 ext. 101. Donate your car or truck and get free towing along with a tax deduction.

Where does Big Brothers Big Sisters of the Monadnock Region get its funding from?

BBBSMR is a non-profit organization supported by funds from generous donors including individuals, federal, state and local government, foundations and corporations.

How is my donation used? (Where does my money go?)

Your donation will support the BBBS agency serving your community according to your zip code. As a professional mentoring organization, BBBS requires resources to maintain a well trained staff to screen volunteers, make matches, and support relationships between Bigs and Littles -- to achieve the kind of success that shows proven results. Click here to read more.

How can I get involved in helping to raise funds for Big Brothers Big Sisters of the Monadnock Region?

Contact Peg Monahan, our executive director at 603-352-9536 ext. 101. She will discuss how you may participate in ongoing fundraising activities or explore new ideas with you.

Is there a minimum donation?

The online minimum donation is $5. However, it is estimated that each "match" (between a Big and Little) costs five hundred and fifty ($550) dollars per year to support. Consider a donation of at least $50 to help support and defray the costs for the Bigs and Littles in your area and receive a free T-shirt. If you are asked to consider a donation, please keep in mind the true costs of helping. Your gift is greatly appreciated and your support is generously welcome.

Where is Big Brothers Big Sisters of the Monadnock Region located? How can I contact you?

174 Emerald Street in Keene, across from Gold's Gym at the Center of Keene.
You may reach us by phone at 1-603-352-9536 or by email.